Anonymous: Im so alone all the time. I dont think i can do this anymore.
You can, and you will. We’re here if you need to talk, we will always be. Don’t worry, life is tough. Everyone goes through stages like this. But learn to use failure and sadness as a boost, to help you fly, soar higher and higher. I know many who feel alone, I do too, sometimes, but use this to help you, to help you find a way. Loneliness energized me- it made me want to do something, to do something productive. So I did. I know you can do this. Whatever is bringing you down, defend yourself, and when you reach the top, you will know that giving up is not the solution. In fact, it never is.
We’re always here to help, to talk, whatever you need (‘:
Just smile from your heart, yea?
Anonymous: Hi, i need motivation to stop cutting. I want to stop but i just cant find any reason good enough.
Cutting will leave scars that you may not want in years to come. Scars your kids could ask you about. Cutting naturally depresses people, even though it may feel the opposite. If you have no cuts you dont have to worry about covering up your beautiful body. No more being paranoid about people seeing them. You can find other ways to deal with the pain lovely. I also strongly recommend watching this video!(:
Anonymous: i've been cutting on and off for about 3 years now, but the past 6 months its got bad, the cuts are deeper, and there's more of them. i have also suffered from bulimia for about 6 years, and only one person knows, but witht he incresed stress of college and home life, everything is getting out of control, i purge up to six times a day, and will cut without fail everyday. i wish i knew what to do, and only one of my friends i talk to about it, and they just go all hypocritical on me.
i know what you mean. Cutting is very addictive not because its a drug but because it temporarily takes the pain away, but in a way it just creates more pain. I dont know to much about eating dissorders but i know you are you. And you are beautiful no matter your size. Your in college and have a bright future ahead of you. I have 23 days clean of cutting, you know how i did it? Once i gathered the strength i threw those blades away. Yes you will get terrible urges but you need to push through them. The more you push through, the easier it gets and thats the truth. I know you can do it. This video also helped me out a lot.
Anonymous: my bestfriend ditched me the other day to hang out with her new boyfriend. They hangout EVRYDAY. Im gettin so sick of it nd i dont know what to do
this definitely happens a lot. you need to tell your best friend that she is making you unhappy with her decisions. don’t tell her this- but almost all boyfriends come and go, but best friends should always be there. remind her that she needs some “friend” time (i know i do), and if she doesnt listen, know its nothing personal, because getting a boyfriend can be fascinating and makes people feel like they need to spend every waking moment with them. -adri
Anonymous: What do you guys do to keep yourselves happy? I could really use some advice on how to make myself a happier person.
SO MANY THINGS. start making a list- because once you get going its easier to think of things. i personally love riding my bike, drawing, working out, drinking tea, curling up with a nice book, listening to music, playing music, taking pictures, walking around the city, taking baths. all you need to do is start thinking about what makes you feel good or what (healthily) takes your mind off of stresses, etc. its easy once you get the hang of it! (: -adri
Anonymous: As crazy as it may sound, i think im addicted to smoking marijuana. It takes all my pain away and makes me happy, but im afraid of being addicted. I dont know what to do.
weed is hard to get addicted to (compared to other drugs), but honestly would it be bad to be addicted? i’m addicted to coffee, but i dont consider it bad. if it is becoming a problem, and interfering with things in your life, then i’d think about maybe trying to take a break. but i’ve smoked weed continuously for about 3 years, and its never become a problem, especially because it helps me with things like stress. it sounds like you are using it for good reasons. seriously send me a private message if you have ANY questions because i know quite a bit about this kinda stuff! -adri
Anonymous: Im gay... I dont know how to tell my parents. I dont think that they will judge me but im still nervous..
It’s okay to be gay, there’s nothing wrong with that. You shouldn’t be nervous, or scared, or anything else negative. If your parents won’t judge you, or even if they do, don’t be afraid to tell them! You are who you are, unique, special, and basically, yourself! You should feel proud, and you shouldn’t be scared to tell them! I think that you should consult them, talk to them privately. I don’t think they’ll be angry, but the sooner you approach them and tell them, the easier it will be for them to take the news in. Good luck (:
Anonymous: Hi...uh i dont know why i am doing this but i just need to get this off my chest. I purged for the first time today. I felt like eating an apple was to much calories. What is wrong with me? The scale just speaks louder than everyone around me....help?
Honestly you’re beautiful the way you are, you will be doing more harm than good to your body if you start this addiction.
If you feel like purging, just do something to to take your mind of it, e.g. start drawing or learn to play an instrument, or even go for a walk, Just find something you enjoy doing and it will be A LOT easier, trust me.
These are just suggestions I hope they help, if not feel free to message me on here or my private blog and I will asnwer privately <3
Anonymous: My ex boyfriend, who i am in love with, told me if i got a tongue piercing he would never kiss me again. That made me upset because we arent even dating and he is trying to tell me what to do. Part of me wants to do it to rebel but the other doesnt. I dont want to upset him and i definitly want to kiss him again. What do i do?
well if you want to do it, then do it! especially since he is your ex, he should not control your actions. if he won’t kiss you just because of something like that then i’d honestly consider not kissing him at all! its your body, hun and you can do whatever you want with it. its just a piercing and even if he does like them, he’ll get over it. -adri
Anonymous: I had a suicide attempt and best friend and crush was the one who called 911 for me. A month later, he and I are dating, and I'm on antidepressants and therapy and trying to get better and quit cutting but I've been this way all my life. He's so supportive and helpful and sweet, but I'm so scared that I won't get better and one day he'll get frustrated and decide I'm not worth his time. I don't want to weigh him down either, and I'm so afraid I'm going to fail.
You are not going to fail. You are going to suceed. Dont doubt yourself because doubts will hurt you. You have already taken all those steps to get better and thats all anyone can ask for now(: