You can, and you will. We’re here if you need to talk, we will always be. Don’t worry, life is tough. Everyone goes through stages like this. But learn to use failure and sadness as a boost, to help you fly, soar higher and higher. I know many who feel alone, I do too, sometimes, but use this to help you, to help you find a way. Loneliness energized me- it made me want to do something, to do something productive. So I did. I know you can do this. Whatever is bringing you down, defend yourself, and when you reach the top, you will know that giving up is not the solution. In fact, it never is. 

We’re always here to help, to talk, whatever you need (‘:

Just smile from your heart, yea? 

Cutting will leave scars that you may not want in years to come. Scars your kids could ask you about. Cutting naturally depresses people, even though it may feel the opposite. If you have no cuts you dont have to worry about covering up your beautiful body. No more being paranoid about people seeing them. You can find other ways to deal with the pain lovely. I also strongly recommend watching this video!(:

-Morgan

i know what you mean. Cutting is very addictive not because its a drug but because it temporarily takes the pain away, but in a way it just creates more pain. I dont know to much about eating dissorders but i know you are you. And you are beautiful no matter your size. Your in college and have a bright future ahead of you. I have 23 days clean of cutting, you know how i did it? Once i gathered the strength i threw those blades away. Yes you will get terrible urges but you need to push through them. The more you push through, the easier it gets and thats the truth. I know you can do it. This video also helped me out a lot.  

~Morgan

this definitely happens a lot. you need to tell your best friend that she is making you unhappy with her decisions. don’t tell her this- but almost all boyfriends come and go, but best friends should always be there. remind her that she needs some “friend” time (i know i do), and if she doesnt listen, know its nothing personal, because getting a boyfriend can be fascinating and makes people feel like they need to spend every waking moment with them. -adri

SO MANY THINGS. start making a list- because once you get going its easier to think of things. i personally love riding my bike, drawing, working out, drinking tea, curling up with a nice book, listening to music, playing music, taking pictures, walking around the city, taking baths. all you need to do is start thinking about what makes you feel good or what (healthily) takes your mind off of stresses, etc. its easy once you get the hang of it! (: -adri

weed is hard to get addicted to (compared to other drugs), but honestly would it be bad to be addicted? i’m addicted to coffee, but i dont consider it bad. if it is becoming a problem, and interfering with things in your life, then i’d think about maybe trying to take a break. but i’ve smoked weed continuously for about 3 years, and its never become a problem, especially because it helps me with things like stress. it sounds like you are using it for good reasons. seriously send me a private message if you have ANY questions because i know quite a bit about this kinda stuff! -adri 

It’s okay to be gay, there’s nothing wrong with that. You shouldn’t be nervous, or scared, or anything else negative. If your parents won’t judge you, or even if they do, don’t be afraid to tell them! You are who you are, unique, special, and basically, yourself! You should feel proud, and you shouldn’t be scared to tell them! I think that you should consult them, talk to them privately. I don’t think they’ll be angry, but the sooner you approach them and tell them, the easier it will be for them to take the news in. Good luck (:

-Lauren

Honestly you’re beautiful the way you are, you will be doing more harm than good to your body if you start this addiction.

If you feel like purging, just do something to to take your mind of it, e.g. start drawing or learn to play an instrument, or even go for a walk, Just find something you enjoy doing and it will be A LOT easier, trust me. 

These are just suggestions I hope they help, if not feel free to message me on here or my private blog and I will asnwer privately <3

-Connor

well if you want to do it, then do it! especially since he is your ex, he should not control your actions. if he won’t kiss you just because of something like that then i’d honestly consider not kissing him at all! its your body, hun and you can do whatever you want with it. its just a piercing and even if he does like them, he’ll get over it. -adri

You are not going to fail. You are going to suceed. Dont doubt yourself because doubts will hurt you. You have already taken all those steps to get better and thats all anyone can ask for now(:

-Morgan